Question by Sunshine: My feelings…He says I wrecked it…This is how i feel…My fault? Your opinion?
People say sometimes people lose feelings, that’s perfectly fine. But when you start treating me worse then a friend would treat a friend then you just didn’t lose feelings. So back in the day I helped you out when you couldn’t get a job, got you hooked up at the place I worked, did some of your school essays for you when you would be stressed. Now you block me on msn, don’t even break up in person after a YEAR of going out with me, and don’t even help me out AS A FRIEND when I needed help. I guess there’s always something that makes a person feel bigger than who they are, in your case it was MONEY. So you made some money, started going to party’s, travelling, and living it up. You don’t need me because you made it to the top right? Well if that’s the person you are, the kind that forget the people who helped them get them there, then your going to fall fast.
And then your stupid friends who always said I was a PSYCHOTIC girlfriend. For what reasons? The fact that I got pissed that you never picked up your phone when I called, and you would ignore all of my calls? For the reason that I expected to be invited with you once in a while when you went clubbing. But no it was too weird to take your girlfriend with you when you went clubbing, because it was boys night, and having me there would be weird right? Well what about the other 100 girls at the club? Ha-ha. You never took me clubbing with you ONCE. What about the night you & your pathetic friends tried to have me lie to your mother about you being with me when you wanted to go to your friends birthday without me? I didn’t want to, because I could have been invited and I wouldn’t have to lie, problem solved. But no, I couldn’t be there right, and your friends harassed me from 12-6pm “lie to his mom for us“. First of all, what kind of boyfriend are you to allow that kind of harassments? Second of all saying that me refusing to lie to your mom showed my selfishness is totally false. I don’t drink, I don’t smoke, I rarely party, what kind of girl would your mom think I was if you came home drunk and high and said you were with me? Because by the end of the day I was in it for the long hall, I wasn’t going to let your friends birthday mess up our future together. So in conclusion your friends were calling me non-stop, and your friends were calling me psychotic? Because I went to talk to your mom telling her it was your decision to end our relationship, that I respected your family, and I wanted to make it work. The fact that I’m not a girl who jumps from guy to guy. I don’t think that was a sin because you were the one to introduce me to your family in the FIRST PLACE.
So your friends think you can do better than me? Well that money may be helping now, you know buy the girls a couple of drinks, and now you got some “bitches”. Well you do know there going to disappear when your moneys not there? Well I don’t even know if you really are getting any girls right now, but considering all your friends are single and how everyone talks about them being losers, it is probably true. See what’s even dumber is you would sit there listening to what your friends had to say about our relationship how you could do better, when they themselves were SINGLE. None of them had a relationship as long as ours. STUPID. You let your friends disrespect me, didn’t do anything about it felt bad for a day about it, but never manned up to say shit to them because eyou feared losing them.
You went 4 weeks talking to your ex, and so what if I hacked your account you were lying right through your teeth telling me that you didn’t talk to her because she was your past. Around that time my uncle died, I did threaten to commit suicide because I didn’t want to lose you too. And that was your reason for breaking up with me because I pushed you away. Yea its unfair, but in a way every time I said that you hurt me allot, like the time you dumped me I wanted to see you, in person, and have you end it that way. Considerign we went out for a year and a half. I EVEN SAID I wouldn’t beg for you to be back, I just wanted closure. Your answer “OKAY ITS CLOSED”. That’s when I started the suicidal messages. YOU WERE NOT PUSHED AWAY YOU DIDN’T WANT TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR HURTING ME. Enough said, you just didn’t lose feelings you became full of yourself.
Best answer:
Answer by Wrightofway
He’s a “User Loser”, Sunshine. Don’t expect User Losers to act in any other way.. It’s up to you to decide that you’re worth a lot more than that.
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